Trust

What I hate the most is being in a relationship with a guy who suddenly becomes best friends with a girl that I do not trust named Monica .I have known her since high school and we are good friends, but I know not to trust her. She is very liberal and does not believe in love. I would love to be in a serious relationship with this guy that I am dating but I feel she gets in the way of our relationship. I have also caught her in a few lies and I know they both keep secrets from me. It hurts me to know that he would rather tell her certain things than talking to me about it.
I realize I am a little jealous of their friendship. My boyfriend and I have had great times together, but I hate the fact that he keeps things from me. I feel if there is no trust in the relationship it is not going to work out. I know I am still young and falling in love should be the last thing on my mind. However, the thought of having someone special to share good memories with seems so wonderful. One of the hardest things in life is to let go of that person who you like and care about the most.
I do not want to loose my boyfriend and decided to have a talk with Monica and tell her how I feel about their relationship. I explained to her how I hate the fact that I feel he is cheating on me and her knowing about it. She made it very clear that I have nothing to worry about my boyfriend cheating on me. He admitted to her how much he loves me. I felt relieved and glad I confronted her about my problem. Monica and I are now very good friends and we all hang out together and care for one another. I learned to accept the fact that my boyfriend has friends and I do not need to be jealous of their relationship because what we have is special.