What I hate the most is being in a relationship with a guy who suddenly becomes best friends with a girl that I do not trust named Monica .I have known her since high school and we are good friends, but I know not to trust her. She is very liberal and does not believe in love. I would love to be in a serious relationship with this guy that I am dating but I feel she gets in the way of our relationship. I have also caught her in a few lies and I know they both keep secrets from me. It hurts me to know that he would rather tell her certain things than talking to me about it.
I realize I am a little jealous of their friendship. My boyfriend and I have had great times together, but I hate the fact that he keeps things from me. I feel if there is no trust in the relationship it is not going to work out. I know I am still young and falling in love should be the last thing on my mind. However, the thought of having someone special to share good memories with seems so wonderful. One of the hardest things in life is to let go of that person who you like and care about the most.
I do not want to loose my boyfriend and decided to have a talk with Monica and tell her how I feel about their relationship. I explained to her how I hate the fact that I feel he is cheating on me and her knowing about it. She made it very clear that I have nothing to worry about my boyfriend cheating on me. He admitted to her how much he loves me. I felt relieved and glad I confronted her about my problem. Monica and I are now very good friends and we all hang out together and care for one another. I learned to accept the fact that my boyfriend has friends and I do not need to be jealous of their relationship because what we have is special.
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Friday, February 1, 2008
Christmas
I was so disappointed I was short on money during my winter vacation, and could not afford to buy all my family members and friends presents. I regret buying my boyfriend a very expensive Christmas present. My boyfriend asked me to buy him a PlayStation 3 for Christmas. He got me a job when I moved to Los Angeles to attend Mount St. Mary's College and I thought he deserved it. My family and friends understood how much it meant for me to make my boyfriend happy. They did not mind receiving their Christmas presents late, which made me feel relieved.
I was so excited when I bought my boyfriend his PlayStation 3 and decided to give him his Christmas present early. He loved his present and, even though he bought me an“ipod shuffle” I loved it and was happy as well. However, a couple of days after Christmas my close friend told me my boyfriend had confessed to her that he has cheated on me. I felt betrayed I was so angry and disappointed in him. I regret working so hard to save up for his Christmas present and not even buy my own family their presents on time. I was not only disappointed at my boyfriend during Christmas, I was also mad at myself for not realizing that my family always comes first.
They are the ones I can trust and count on when I am going through difficult times. I apologized to my family, and they were very understanding. They were more concerned about my heartbreak with my boyfriend and advised me to have a talk with him. It might have been some type of misunderstanding, but it was difficult to look at my boyfriend in the eye. My boyfriend explained to me that what my friend had said was a horrible lie. Unfortunately, she was jealous of the fact that she saw me happy with my boyfriend and made the whole story up to try to break us apart. I also had a talk with her and she apologized as well, but now I know I can never trust her. As for my boyfriend, we are still trying to work things out, but no matter what happens, my family will always come first in my heart.
I was so excited when I bought my boyfriend his PlayStation 3 and decided to give him his Christmas present early. He loved his present and, even though he bought me an“ipod shuffle” I loved it and was happy as well. However, a couple of days after Christmas my close friend told me my boyfriend had confessed to her that he has cheated on me. I felt betrayed I was so angry and disappointed in him. I regret working so hard to save up for his Christmas present and not even buy my own family their presents on time. I was not only disappointed at my boyfriend during Christmas, I was also mad at myself for not realizing that my family always comes first.
They are the ones I can trust and count on when I am going through difficult times. I apologized to my family, and they were very understanding. They were more concerned about my heartbreak with my boyfriend and advised me to have a talk with him. It might have been some type of misunderstanding, but it was difficult to look at my boyfriend in the eye. My boyfriend explained to me that what my friend had said was a horrible lie. Unfortunately, she was jealous of the fact that she saw me happy with my boyfriend and made the whole story up to try to break us apart. I also had a talk with her and she apologized as well, but now I know I can never trust her. As for my boyfriend, we are still trying to work things out, but no matter what happens, my family will always come first in my heart.
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